The Father's LoveZephaniah 3:17

He Will Joy Over Thee With Singing Is a Noise God Makes

This message is for the reader who was told once that they were a disappointment and has organized every year since around disproving it

A man told me he has been in an argument for thirty one years with somebody who is not participating.

His father said one sentence to him when he was fourteen. He can quote it. He can tell you the room, the time of day and what was on the table.

And every single thing he has done since has been, in some part of it, an exhibit. The degree was an exhibit. The house was an exhibit. He told me the car was an exhibit and he laughed when he said it, and then he stopped laughing.

His father is alive. They speak. His father has never once referred to it and, as far as this man can tell, does not remember saying it.

That is the specific horror of this, and I want to name it accurately: he is running an appeal against a verdict that only one of the two parties knows was handed down.

There is a sentence in Zephaniah that goes at that from a completely unexpected direction, and it is not about approval at all.

The verse describes a sound, not a judgement

Here it is.

The LORD thy God in the midst of thee is mighty; he will save; he will rejoice over thee with joy; he will rest in his love, he will joy over thee with singing. (Zephaniah 3:17, King James Version)

Read what He is described as doing. Rejoicing. Resting. Singing.

None of those are verdicts. A verdict is a finding delivered after an assessment, and there is no assessment anywhere in that sentence. What is described is a state and a noise.

He will joy over thee with singing. The picture is a Father making an audible sound of delight over somebody, which is a completely different category from approving of them.

That is why it is useful for a man running an appeal. An appeal is aimed at a verdict, and you cannot appeal against singing. There is nothing there to argue with. There is only somebody either receiving it or standing outside the room while it happens.

You are being sung over rather than assessed. Zephaniah 3:17 says he will joy over thee with singing, which is a sound rather than a finding. It is His Spirit, Romans 5:5 shedding the love of God abroad in our hearts, who carries a noise like that into a chest that has been braced for a ruling.

The other line, and where it sat in a life

The verse about the Father speaking over a Son is placed somewhere very specific, and the placement is the whole point.

And lo a voice from heaven, saying, This is my beloved Son, in whom I am well pleased. (Matthew 3:17)

That is said at Jesus's baptism, which is before the ministry. Before the miracles, before the teaching, before the cross. Nothing on the exhibit list has happened yet.

So the sentence is not a review. It is an announcement, made in public, in advance of any performance, and the pleasure in it is not caused by anything achieved.

I have watched that verse do more for men in their fifties than anything else I preach. Not because it flatters anybody. Because it destroys the schedule they have been on, which is the schedule where the good sentence comes after the exhibits.

You are spoken over before the exhibits rather than after them. Matthew 3:17 puts the beloved and the well pleased in front of the ministry rather than behind it, and it is the Holy Spirit, described in the same passage as descending like a dove, who is present in that scene as the announcement is made.

God renames a place that had a name like that

There is a passage in Isaiah where God deals with a name people had been given, and He does not argue with the people who gave it.

Thou shalt no more be termed Forsaken; neither shall thy land any more be termed Desolate: but thou shalt be called Hephzibah, and thy land Beulah: for the LORD delighteth in thee. (Isaiah 62:4)

Hephzibah means my delight is in her.

Notice the method. He does not go back to whoever called them Forsaken and win the argument. He issues a different name, and the reason He gives is for the LORD delighteth in thee, which is again a statement about His own state rather than about their record.

That is the only way out of a thirty one year appeal. Not winning it. Being renamed by somebody with the authority to name.

You are named by delight rather than by a description somebody handed you. Isaiah 62:4 issues a new name and gives His own delight as the reason. It is the same Spirit, Ephesians 1:13 sealing us after we believed, who is named as the seal on a name that was issued rather than earned.

Accepted, and where the accepting is located

Paul puts the whole thing in three words that are worth reading slowly.

To the praise of the glory of his grace, wherein he hath made us accepted in the beloved. (Ephesians 1:6)

Accepted in the beloved. The acceptance is described as located inside somebody else.

Which means it is not measured against a performance, because it was not issued on the basis of one. It is a position rather than a score, and a position is not the sort of thing that can be improved by another exhibit.

And there is a line in the Psalms that says the same thing from the other end:

For the LORD taketh pleasure in his people. (Psalm 149:4)

Taketh pleasure. Present tense, ongoing, and the object is a people rather than a performance.

You are accepted inside somebody else rather than on your own showing. Ephesians 1:6 says he hath made us accepted in the beloved. It is the Spirit of God, Romans 8:16 bearing witness with our spirit that we are the children of God, who does the telling that no achievement has managed.

The breakthrough

So say out loud the sentence you never heard, addressed to God, and let Him say it back.

You are not on trial, and there is no verdict in that verse to appeal against. Zephaniah 3:17 describes rejoicing, resting and singing rather than any finding at all. It is the Holy Spirit, Romans 5:5 shedding the love of God abroad in the heart, who carries a sound into a person who has been listening for a ruling.

And do not go looking for the win. The other party has usually forgotten, and the ones who have not are not qualified to issue anything. Isaiah does not settle the argument about the old name. He issues a different one.

You are accepted in the beloved, which is a position rather than a score. Ephesians 1:6 says he hath made us accepted in the beloved. It is the same Spirit rather than your record who is named as bearing witness that you are a child of God.

Nothing here promises the exhibits stop. The woman who leaves off the sentence still adds it a third of the time and told me so plainly. What is settled is that the good sentence was spoken over a Son before one thing had been achieved, out loud, in public, and that the pleasure in it was not caused by anything.

Declare this over yourself

Say it out loud. You are in Christ and Christ is in you, so the authority to speak over a verdict you have been appealing is genuinely yours, delegated and never invented. God renamed a whole people rather than arguing with whoever had named them, so speak to the sentence you have been disproving rather than to any person: a declaration here is never aimed at another human being's will. Bless them and command the verdict. Every line below is Zephaniah 3:17 and Ephesians 1:6 handed back in your own voice. It is His Spirit, not your record, that makes saying it a receiving. Say what God has said and leave the outcome to Him.

  1. Verdict I have been appealing for years, you are not what is being said over me. The Word of God says the LORD thy God in the midst of thee is mighty, and He joys over me with singing, so the sentence that called me a disappointment is not the one I am living under.
  2. Instinct to add one more exhibit, you are finished in the name of Jesus. I am accepted in the beloved, because Ephesians 1:6 makes that a position rather than a score, and His Spirit is the one bearing witness that I am a child of God.
  3. Father, You said beloved and well pleased before one thing had been achieved, and Matthew 3:17 puts that at a baptism rather than at the end. I receive that today, and I am saying out loud the sentence I never heard and letting You say it back.

Why we ask you to say these out loud

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Zephaniah 3:17

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